Previously, handling of test directories (`@tests` and `test_cases`) was
distributed over multiple files and redundant. This unifies the handling
in the `utils` module. This also fixes some instances where "package"
was used instead of "distribution". And in a few instances paths were
joined by using a `/` in a string, which is incompatible with Windows.
Also move `runtests.py` from `scripts` to `tests`. This is required so that
we can import `utils`, but it's also arguably the better fit. The only
mention of the script is actually in the `tests/README.md` file.
Helps with #11762.
Sebastian Rittau